Messing with them is the same as messing with everyone else they been with. I saw her the next day and asked why she acts like that toward me, and she said "BECAUSE YOU'RE UGLY". This may make some Men unhappy, but it will work! Not for who they once were and no longer are. Hello Stephan, thank you for answering me. TSR Community Awards 2022: Best Official Rep - VOTING OPEN, TSR Community Awards 2022: Most Funniest Member - VOTING NOW OPEN, JK Rowling dismisses backlash over trans comments: 'I don't care about my legacy', Official University of Leeds 2023 Undergraduate Applicants Threads. what we can do is discuss what may be a more effective way of going about things and encourage taking that route. You think people are using condoms at a high ratenope. Interesting. Strength and confidence have nothing to do with it in my opinion. insert kylo ren meme here. In the end your selling yourself short. Thats a nice, positive thought. I definitely would not marry a woman who has slept around a lot. Most people have not and this applies to both men and women. Men getting around has pretty much been accepted as it is. Only 2 of them were and the other 13 just encounters. discuss it. GTFO, it should not work that way. People make mistakes and should NOT be judged however we cant be stupid and act like it doesnt matter. Men have to work to get sex, women dont. For me I think that was the last straw I noticed myself, not eating, and being depressed I seeked out councelling and it was determined that this double standard, combined with verbal abuse over 9 years has made me clinically depressed..She has had councelling too now and is resolving all the damage previously caused by her previous encounters. Yes a womans body is a masterpiece, etc The promiscuity/emotional baggage/spiritual damage/ and possible stds is it really worth it? Its not the most important factor. Everyone has a past. Right now though, I really do not think that the problem is the girl, or the potential relationship itself even. Okay okay, maybe that is a bit extreme. You still come right? The only position here is dont let the past stop you from receiving and embracing your blessings. I can only imagine the disappointment her parents or my mother would express if they knew the truth about her. Our pasts, now matter how much we embrace or deny them, makes us who we are. It only hurts her to vent. Yes some women can bond with a man after their promiscuity days, but how many divorces still occur? It is what it is, but the most important part is your STD FREE!!!!! would sleep with them while single. Some of them were guys I knew actually friends of mine. Those refusing to acknowledge a persons sexual past are really the ones insecure about it, not those who ask. Granted there are some women who embrace being free to do as they please sexually, and then there are some that get caught up for various reasons. Anyone with a brain knows that a persons past is a huge reflection of themselves and that past actions can show a lot especially in regards to the human condition. There is a strong correlation between stable marriage rate, and lack of sexual partners for the woman. Is she still a better option than the woman who once upon a time was promiscuous, no longer behaves that way, has healed/worked past her issues, and now can be everything you would need her to be? Just like that song in the 70s that said, so many men so little time how can they Choose. There can be comparison issues, less patience due to what they have experienced previously, and a bunch of other stuff I will address in a future post. If you are dating with marriage in mind, it is important to look for qualities that would make someone a good life partner. There is no double standard at all. Is a depressed life worth living. Next!! Im sick of the who are we to judge mentality.. We judge very often. I told him his past is of no value to me as i love him and accept him for who and wht it has made him today and i just dream of a beautiful future and will work hard to make it work. I am giving my perspective on why they should not judge the woman solely on her past. She is 20 years old and lost her virginity at 18 to the first relationship. Regardless of what it was, it shouldnt matter. However, a guy can be just as much of a slut as a gal. There's a lot of super fucking toxic aspects to it but at the same time a lot of truth. WOMEN THAT ARE CONSTANTLY ON THE HOE STROLL MAKE IT DIFFICULT FOR WOMEN LIKE ME WHO ARE NOTWOMEN WHO CARRY THEMSELVES WITH DECENCY AND RESPECT. Maybe if you learn to use it, you wont have to ask other people to do your work for you. And know that there will be days your not overwhelmed in thought. Some of them are alright but it seems like some sleazy fucking dudes thrown into the mix. Sorry, Id much rather reward the woman who showed discipline, restraint, integrity, and respect for herself. This is only my input on the subject as I have been tackling this topic for weeks now and I am open to everybody's opinion. I have NEVER met a secure, balanced, confident woman who could just have sex, get up, leave, and feel happy never seeing the person again. All is equal and fair. And generally, its women that are exploited yet praised, used and then ridiculed for being sensual, sexual, whole human beings not the men. HAVING A LOT OF SEXUAL PARTNER IS JUST NOT RIGHT .. Men throwing themselves at women is acceptable in society. YOU yourself are ashamed of what you did. and some are looser on the how-many-is-to-many question. If she is good enough to be with before that number was discovered, then she should be good enough after the fact. He is the King of kings and Lord of lords. and that he cannot get over my past even though I had everything he had been looking for. Ive broken hearts and have been burned myself. I often think about the young ladies who were sexually abused in the youth, or who were taught sex is the only way to love or keep someone. Yeah I had to read the article again lol the first time I read it, I guess it came of as promoting promiscuity. Marriage can't be only about sex. The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only. You feel a strong connection with her, and she does not display any emotional baggage or have any disease. Error message when applying for student finance, Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, Official LSE Undergraduate Applicants thread 2023, Official Dental Hygiene and Therapy (Oral Health Science) 2023 Entry Thread, Official UNIVERSITY of BATH 2023 entry thread. Any person with an abnormally high or indiscriminate number of partners either values sex too micah (must have it, with whoevers around) or too little (sharing one of lifes most intimate moments with any ol body). Always feel free to express yourself on my blog because even in disagreement the discussion can be good and productive. What youre looking at is her psychology. would want a man who thinks this way, otherwise, she is going to just end with The best thing is, I have asked a lot of people prior to getting into a relationship because I do not wish to waste my time with somebody who has a lot of sexual partners. N women should respect themselves, and men should as well! Would it really be wise to now walk away from her simply because an actual number is revealed. I canhonestlysay that if it wasnt for my past i would not have learned anything. Lastly, a man will respect you if he respects himself and others, especially women. I think that this is a very mature way to look at the reality in which we live. Past DOES matter. I could go on forever but Ill stop here. Women want a guy who wants a woman to love and respect herself to value a Personally, my vengeance on society telling me what to think about sex is to have as much of it as I can. Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. Why cant we they have their cake and eat it too? Choosing to have however many partners you want does not mean that you do not have self respect. Im hoping this article opens some eyes and gets people to start looking at all of this differently. Lets say it was you in their spot. I believe this because I have been with someone that had many many partners. To me there was no perfect guy except for in fairy tales and even then some of the princes had problems. Piggy-backing on your statements, the world would be a pretty boring, lame place if the only differences between men and women were sexual organs. Sad to say that women nowadays are sleeping around more than men do. Thank you, Lord, for writing my name in Your Lambs Book of Life and sealing me with Your Holy Spirit! Having sex with your man . take her to my babysitting job and we can babysit the little kid and eachother ;) to my work, she can help me move machines and i can help her move her machine ;) maybe take her to a big scary movie called CLOWNS R KOOL and then buy her a balloon. Some women know how to take care of themselves in a way that would cause you to have no clue how much wear and tear they may have. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. We have been together for almost a year now. Men have to go out to 10 women and hope 1 of them chooses him. Thank you for sharing that Justina I really appreciate your willingness to do that. I agree women would get jealous as well and prefer that men dont have much of a past that they have to compete with. EXACTLY and guess what: YOU ARE BEING JUDGED for having the wrong amount! I think you may be just saying what you think sounds right or politically correct, without actually thinking through the implications. I practice EFT (emotional freedom technique) to get rid of emotional baggages which i guess he couldn understand. I just feel that the issues are deeper than sex or promiscuity. For me it was a shock should I care? And, yet, came to this earth and mankind to serve and not to be served. As far as what does she have to give, my answer is her love, support, and the happiness that she provides. It's a case of attraction. Just continue to pour love into her and your relationship and you will continue to see things improve. No one is saying you have to date us. Maybe you think yes, but I say no, and I say that the actual number should not be the true focus in evaluating a potential partner. but that did not bother me. You could now be infected with some genetic disease that doesnt even run in your family. I can go on for days about this. There are a lot more incidents which i wont get into for the sake of keeping this short. https://psychcentral.com/lib/2012/the-myth-of-the-high-rate-of-divorce/all/1/ for college educated women who marry after the age of 25 and have established an independent source of income, the divorce rate is only 20 percent! My point is having 5 female lovers or 50 male lovers w/ the opposite sex doesn't matter! You would have to be in it to understand. Granted, I agree it may all come from some traumatic event or maybe an ongoing psychological/sociological issue (ie lack of a father or mother etc) andIn fact, the promiscuous women did suffer from some deepissues. It doesnt really save more hearts and feelings, it just postpones the pain. Not too many women want a man that other women dont want. Twitter. It wasnt until recently I started putting together clues that she had been with more. Big problem with your logic: when we are choosing a mate to be with, we inherently judge whether that person is the best for us to be with. Lmao!!! the fire between them grows up again and they start f..ng silly like bunnies behind your back! We got married 6 month ago and we are super happy. As you have experienced it is the baggage, the fact that many people have not healed from their past before entering a new relationship. What did that really change? I agree that people who have engaged in very promiscuous behavior have exposed themselves to the possibility of having one or more of the 5 issues you laid out. I do have a job and a life. So shes had a lot of partners at the same time in the past- if everyone in the situation knew what was up (that there was no expectation of monogamy), then theres no harm to it! and no teenage girls are not by right suppose to stay virgins until you come along at some point in their lives lol. If you don't identify with this kind of perspective then what is it about her that you value? Most of us have things in our past that the next person can view in a negative light. Not wanting a woman with a dicey past doesnt make a man some self righteous, hypocritical, judgmental monster. know if your lover truly loves you for who you are if they dont know. Let it go. Men stand to lose their homes, assets and children even when they were the ones who honored their vows, to have and to hold, for better or worse. It's always great to reflect on this stuff. great number of men for the same reason. Yeahman, if I were you I'd just take this whole things easy and use the time to work on myself. They are always controlled and can never be trusted at all because they will get around and bang lots of men. number is half your age. Tough shit. Correct me if I'm wrong:), You are concerned that the girl you like has slept with a lot of guys, maybe in excess and this really worries you. It would best be done in the We all have issues, so we have no right to be so quick to judge, and look down on others for their perceived issue. Blanksie if you take the time to read the article and many other articles I have written you will notice that I always mention that I think it is best for women to wait. Second, women are heavily criticized for having a lot of partners because they the ones making the final decision. least. No one would want their daughter or niece to sleep around. Ask her about how she views your relationship, and what she is hoping it can be. If your just hitting it no big deal. You can try to explain Him out of existence all you want. how to get likes on dating apps as a male? I cannot think of any psychologist orNeurologistwho would argue that humans actions have no weight on themselves or their behavior let alone mental health. Youtube. You could play an important role in her life, and teach her how lovely a LTR can be. Ive been in two serious relationships. She told me that she thought sleeping around was dangerous and that she wanted to wait until marriage. thanks but no thanks. My number is 25. I had been with 100 myself. Sure, they can lie but I have always found the real number later and left them. That being said, if they are not willing to work this 3 of the men I was seeing wanted to marry me, but they are more jealous. sacrifice some of your freedom (not a ridiculous amount), give them access to Yall need to start doing some research and stop sleeping around. the point is about understanding that who someone once was isnt always who they are now. I always thought about meeting that one person and never wanted my sexual activity to come between us. I think its best to know what youre dealing with but at the same it doesnt matter because who they are today should speak volumes. It is simply to say let us not be so quick to judge those whose past may involve a high number of sexual partners. Notoriety. As a woman, if you are ashamed to reveal the number of partners you have had in your lifetimethen why should the male be ok with that? One should not strive to be perfect. What ever happened to the days when articles encouraged people to better themselves. Good luck. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, TSR Community Awards 2022: Most Helpful Thread of the Year- VOTING NOW OPEN, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, Official LSE Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, Law Applicants 2023 entry - discussion thread, Sutton Trust US Programme Cohort 12 (2023) Applicants Thread. No track record of long-term relationships, combined with promiscuous behaviour, is always a bad sign, regardless of philosophy. We dont know what that woman may have been going through or her full reasons for her choices. She loves you, and regardless of how anybody else wants to view her, it only matters how you view her. They brag about it all the time when they want praise for being able to give birth. I might ride in it a Well, since its your sole source, perhaps you could post it so we could examine the methodology, whether its been peer reviewed, etc.? Normally the good man doesnt have half the number of the slut girl. God did not create us to be WHORES, and I am referring to both Men and Women. Its not. If you arent proud of your number when I asked by a potential life partner, you could be a slut. People are unable to act outside their own nature. Most men can understand a mistake or two, and possibly some bad boyfriends. I would rather be morally responsible than put another person through the consequences of my decisions. Nowadays, everyone is playing games, and everyone will lose. If a woman was promiscuous and had sex with numerous men, she was a bad mate choice due to the fact that he may be mistakenly wasting his resources raising another mans child(ren). enjoy has lead to a downward spiral in the family, out of control divorce You have more preconceptions than aporcupinehas quills. Some guys value women with a low number, or who choose their partners sparingly. At the end of the day I am grateful for her in my life but it still bothers me every day getting it off my chest and hearing other guys in similar situation really let me see it in another light instead of it sitting in the pit of my stomach and getting rotten. The wear and tear should be the same from sleeping with 100 different men as sleeping with one man 100 times. Evaluate that person for who they are now, not who they were previously. Because the why rather than the number of men is what really should be discussed in order to better understand who this woman has been and has become. Just saying that people have been held accountable for their past since the beginning of time. Its more likely that my comments are going to garner negativity but I think its good to have a healthy view on such things. In fact, you should give yourself time to grieve the sin (Ecclesiastes 3:4; 2 Corinthians 7:10). Peace. Excellent. JOGOS DE HOJE. Maybe you would feel like you have one over on other people because you have THE DIFFERENCE IS A WOMANS BODY IS BUILT DIFFERENTLY AND THE WEAR AND TEAR IS MORE EVIDENT. Hell to some if you arent a virgin you are a whore. before getting to know me, my first thought would be Wow! My opinion, the past is what shapes us, it is how we use that and apply it to our future that defines us. Would you rather have a car with ONE OWNER, who took care of it. It is actually a fact that the more partners a woman has had, the more likely the marriage is to fail, source:https://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html I have just as much right to sleep with however many men I chose, even if its none. I was promiscuous in 9th-10th grade. I understand where you are coming from but we do not agree on this topic. I think people need to stop judging one another and get to know a person for who they are now and not the person they were in the past. No ones fully mature in their 20s. I think you misunderstand the article, this is not an article to promote a womans right to be promiscuous. 2. panophobic. By his personality it doesn seem that he is a virgin either. Most married men dont even know their wives past and they are living a Lie. THATS WHY YOU CANT ADMIT IT. while there certainly can be concerns about patterns of behavior, don't let those feed your insecurities. These men typically have low self-esteem, cannot get better, are older and desperate, or simply have no other options. Location: Melbourne, Australia. Your situation is exactly what I want people to understand. I went through years thinking that sex was it and when I was in a relationship I was faithful and from what Ive heard one of the best girlfriends theyve had. Don't forget to follow us on social networks! People are simply not willing to marry unless they are certain that the person they are marrying is compatible.. If you are a man with 3 children with 3 different mothers, there is something wrong. issue out, then you should get out. choosing to be selective in whom they sleep with. Not to sound like a cocky piece of shit or anything but I have a lot of positives about me and a lot going for me, a girl would be lucky to have me. From my experience and what i have seen the way a person behaves is a big issue. If you love sex so much, u can have it with the man you believe will stay with u and you have something serious with, something that will not spoil your name.. Its a bit embarassing.. Keep in mind, you have no money in your 20s. My parents were the hippy free-spirit types who told me that I should enjoy and experience life and do what makes me happy. It honestly is a question of a womans character. So a man can use that as a measuring stick all he wants, but the reality is he may forever be getting false data. -Women also judge in choosing partners. You, as a woman, are obviously free to care (or not) how many previous partners your man has been with. The double standard is actually there for a reason. Questions and Answers. In addition, last time I checked, a woman is not a car to be driven. Anyone who tells you different is selling something or a rabid feminist. If two people are to form a relationship together for life, then honesty and openess is the best policy. Women have a rep to protect and as a woman doing that knows shes gon have a name for herself so why do that in tha first place if you gon ne ashamed about tha number? I reinforced that sex was a major responsibility, must be done with responsibility, and that I definitely preferred that she would wait until she was marriedbut that if something changedprotection was a must! although Ive had my fair share partners i dont like a woman who has. In a romantic sense any woman who sleeps around is unattractive to me. -Choices have consequences Furthermore, I think that guys that dont care about their partners Back in the day (I mean waaayyyy back lol) it was all about having a virgin. Fast Stream 2023 (Reinstated) applicants thread. I dont know what planet you come from but aint no way a man would want to wife a woman who has slept with every man in town. See I do not expect for anybody to be with someone that does not share some of the same core values that they have. Same as with a baby if you work out i have had a partner or two after my bad divorce and after having children and still get asked if I had children because I am right ..I personally think it depends on how the person is made idk..what do I know though .. Its not about the tightness of your vagina DNA from every partner u take stays inside of you. If they have, you dont know the type of past this woman has had such as entering prostitution when she was young for various reasons, seeking validation from men through sex at a young age (especially if shes been sexually abused or has father issues) or because she has no problem with satisfying her sexual needs which we do have. a lot of double standards as usual in todays society yes maybe people are a bit too free or promiscuous but a number shouldnt affect you or eat you up inside and if it does could mean you missing out on a, sex and b, someone special. Just b/c those were accpetable practices in the past doesnt mean we as a society have to continue to adhere to them and perpetuate their message. 9. Do not lie, but do not get detailed. Dont allow the negative thoughts to hinder your relationship or your overall quality of life. You will feel that you left . What I am saying is I dont feel it is best to allow that to overshadow everything else that is great about this woman and the fact that you believe she is best from you (aside from a possible past you arent too happy about). And possessive so I stopped having sex with them. Sorry, no thanks. About how each time she sleeps There's countless men with who she has either talked or shared pictures with or kissed etc etc, some of them while she was in a relationship as wel. This is HILARIOUS from the perspective where people are making Judgment and the act of judging out to be a bad thing!!! Good, glad to know my position is clear. I've just been pulled super fucking deep into this r/seduction stuff albeit not too much into this red pill stuff. I completely disagree with your statement that most women divorce because they have affairs. 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